Contribution: 6 Things Your Heart Needs to Hear You Say About the New Year 2013

Contribution can be small or great, but even your smallest contribution can change a person’s life, and make your heart grow. Being able to contribute makes you feel valued, and strengthens your self-esteem.   You are a unique and amazing individual. You have inside you a source of strength and wisdom waiting to be shared… Continue reading Contribution: 6 Things Your Heart Needs to Hear You Say About the New Year 2013

Praise and Criticism – A Story From The Monastery

I’ll never forget the rather amusing altercation between two of the monks at the monastery one day involving buckets of water!  Giving and receiving praise and criticism can play havoc with our emotions if it goes unchecked.  Both Brother Matthew and Brother Simon (names changed for anonymity) had been engaged in an ego-game of criticising… Continue reading Praise and Criticism – A Story From The Monastery

First Days Outside the Monastery #2 – Monochrome World

Negotiating the dilemma of the train ticket was the first wordly transaction I had to make by myself since leaving the monastery. After that I turned from the ticket counter to face the doorway which led through to the platform. Now that I had successfully secured my means of passage I was able to breathe… Continue reading First Days Outside the Monastery #2 – Monochrome World

When You Can’t Change Things Try Changing Your Perspective

Any given situation can be looked at, or interpreted in different ways.  Your experience of life is determined not by your circumstances, but by your perspective of those circumstances.  Quite often we are unable to do anything about our circumstances, which may be lead to suffering on our part.  But with a little conscious effort… Continue reading When You Can’t Change Things Try Changing Your Perspective

On Being a Good Coach

In order to help another your own life should be based on a solid foundation. A good coach is someone who is consciously working on themselves, continuously trying to grow and improve.